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Barouyr "Barry" Hairabedian

April 4, 1926 — August 2, 2020

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Barouyr "Barry" Z. Hairabedian, 94, of Lake Katrine, NY, died peacefully early Sunday morning on August 2, 2020 after a long illness. Born in Alexandria, Egypt to Azniev and Zareh Hairabedian, Barouyr was raised in the Armenian Quarter of the Old City of Jerusalem, Palestine, where he received his early education at Sts. Tarkmanchatz Armenian School, and then graduated from Bishop Gobat preparatory school, where his scientific, mathematical and literary gifts were cultivated. At age 12, he opened a tattoo shop to earn money for tuition, for several years tattooing pilgrims to the Holy City, and later, Aussie and British soldiers during World War II. After graduating from Bishop Gobat school, his plans for continuing his education in America were interrupted by the Arab-Israeli war, during which time he and his family had to flee their home and spend many months as refugees in Madaba. After returning to Jerusalem, Barouyr partnered with a friend and opened the radio repair shop "Volta", through which he earned enough to pay for his first semester's tuition in Oklahoma University's program in Electrical Engineering.

It was while at Volta that he met a young university professor, Marian Lee, who was then touring the Middle East. They began a five-year correspondence which continued throughout Barouyr's years at Oklahoma U., and into his subsequent employment with IBM in Kingston, NY. Having secured a job, he set off for California to find an Armenian bride, making a detour through Lafayette, IN, to visit Marian Lee, and wound up asking her to marry him. He never got to California. After their wedding, the couple settled in Kingston, where Barouyr soon distinguished himself at IBM by research and analysis for an innovative computer transmission cable, which earned him IBM's Outstanding Contribution Award. He co-authored papers and patents during his long career with the company. Along the way, Barouyr and Marian had three children---Sona, Jon and David.

An avid reader, fluent in English, Armenian and Arabic, Barouyr was restlessly inventive and curious, using free time to design, build, write programs and articles, draw, paint, and dabble in blacksmithing. He was a perfectionist with high standards that he applied to every project, be it constructing a camera obscura, fixing a lawnmower, building a forge, or drafting schematics for the perfect falafel machine. His precise artistic touch made them artifacts of high quality. After retiring from IBM as a senior engineer, he devoted some of his time to landscape watercolor painting, studying with Hudson Valley artist Staats Fasoldt.

He was a loving and supportive husband and father who inspired by example, and whose intelligence and benevolence won him many friends, expressed, as it often was, in acts of practical kindness. He tried to take care of everybody. His advice was often prefaced by a Middle Eastern proverb, or a verse of English poetry. A long-time member of St. Peter's Armenian Orthodox Church in Troy, he also occasionally attended Redeemer Lutheran Church in Kingston, NY.

His beloved wife Marian died in 1997. He is survived by his daughter, Sona, and sons Jon and David, as well as sisters Mary (Mrs. Nazar) Kardjian, Alice (Mrs. Richard) McArdle, brother Varoujan Hairabedian, and brother-in-law Burton Lee; he is also survived by several nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was stoic and brave to the end. Dad, we love you forever!

We wish to thank the doctors, EMS and hospital staff, Hudson Valley Hospice, ArchCare and especially Deborah Dickson for their support and care of Barouyr during the past several months.

Arrangements entrusted to Keyser Funeral & Cremation Service, 326 Albany Avenue, Kingston, NY 12401, where family and friends may visit on Thursday August 6, 2020 from 4pm to 7pm.

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A private funeral service and burial in Montrepose Cemetery will be held on Friday August 7, 2020.

Those who wish may make a memorial gift to the Armenian General Benevolent Union (AGBU) at or Disabled American Veterans at A tribute for Barry can be found at , where you may leave memories and expressions of sympathy for his family.

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